China

Boarding with conditions
Very budget-friendly. You can travel well on the lower end or live comfortably up around $150 a day depending on your style. Food, transit, and everyday costs are low, and your money stretches far!

The Story

China is one of the most fascinating and, honestly, one of the best places I've ever been, and I don't say that lightly. I didn't just visit, I did school there and actually lived there, so I've experienced it as daily life, not a highlight reel. It's radically different from the West, and I won't pretend the adjustment is instant, since it takes a minute to find your footing. But once you do, it's such a good time. I've learned an enormous amount, grown in ways I didn't expect, and met some genuinely good people along the way. I love it so much that I can actually see myself moving back after I graduate, and I plan to. If you're willing to meet it on its own terms, China will surprise you!

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The Attention Factor

You'll get attention, and how much depends a lot on how you look as a foreigner. It comes both ways. I've had genuinely warm, curious, kind interactions and some uncomfortable ones too. Go in knowing it can swing either direction on any given day.

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Practical notes

Come prepared, because China runs on its own ecosystem. First, set up a VPN before you arrive, because a lot of the apps you rely on (Google, Instagram, WhatsApp, and more) are blocked, and you can't easily download a VPN once you're there. The Western apps you're used to, like Uber, DoorDash, and Amazon, mostly don't exist there, so get the local ones ahead of time. The big three are Alipay, WeChat, and DiDi, and between them you'll pay for everything, message everyone, and get around. You barely need cash, since the whole country is digital and you pay by scanning QR codes. If you can, grab a temporary Chinese phone number, because a lot of apps give better prices to local numbers (ordering food on an international number can quietly cost more). Download offline maps and a translation app too, since Google Maps doesn't work well there. And check the current visa rules for your passport before you book. China's entry options change, so confirm what applies to you.

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What I'd skip

Don't spend the whole trip in the mega-cities. Beijing and Shanghai are incredible, but if that's all you see, you'll leave with a skewed picture. The real magic is in the smaller cities and more rural areas. That's where you get the true vibe of China, away from the tourist polish. Make the time to go beyond the obvious stops.

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